被動
兩個星期前,有人話我係一個被動ge人.被動?我從冇想過自己係被動的人,觀察自己兩星期,原來我都幾被動,我成曰想每件事順其自然,所以我絕對唔係隨便辭職和分手ge人,老細叫我搵D人跟我,咁個位先坐得穩.查實我無所謂,為做而做,我最怕,我覺得好浪費精神,甚至遺失自我.我唔係唔想拍拖.結婚.生仔.升職.加薪,但太主動,又唔似我喎.有朋友話我其實都幾「化」.「化」?唯一肯定,我真係信上帝有預備,唔一定咩都有,但唔會咩都冇.
posted by luigigi @ 2:06 PM
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- Name: luigigi
- Location: Central, Hong Kong
Virgo but not afraid to try new things Why I blog? The reason is as follows: To share with you all the marvellous moments "Look at the world, everything all around us; Look at the world and marvel every day" quoted from John Rutter's song - Look at the world
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3 Comments:
Hello, 被動的人, its nice to be a 被動的人 in some things, but not in others. For example:
(1) Situations where its good to be a 被動的人: while standing on a escalator, being massaged by a massurer, as a passenger in my car Ah Bing, when responding to your boss.
(2) Situtions where its NOT good to be a 被動的人: hunting for bargains at a sale, updating your blog, and of course, 'that thing la' (you know la, that thing I told you about la...he he he).
「主動」、「被動」本身沒有問題，各有各好；我就比較喜歡「目標為本」，只要達到「目標」，「主動」「被動」也沒所謂。
I am a self reflecting type of person. It was a shock to me when sb described me as passive. Of course, I know it is kind of 'situation dependence'.
Actually a kindergarten scenario may best elaborate my thought:
I am not the active student who always volunteers to help teachers or initiates activities. But when nobody takes action, I am happy to do it. And i have been given many chances to be leaders in the past ... in that sense, I am active.
Yet being task/goal oriented is definitely not my cup of tea.
About that thing, that requires some luck.
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