Well, I am fat , and so
Forgive me for being cynical here. An auntie asked me why her daughter and I are so fat. She looked at me as if I am pathetic. Honestly I did not understand why people are so obsessed with size, you know body size, not cup size. Of course I could not be mad at auntie's gentle reminder. All I have to say is that I could be thin in just three weeks. That was the time my mother died. I could be thin as if I was ill. That was the time I had to supervise home renovation. And I still wear medium size if it still bothers you. I have passion for food as well as passion for life. You may remember me as my 20's at my prime time. I was once cute with good body figure and many boys around. However, that was history. I accept aging as part if life,the inevitability of life.i remembered you as the Auntie I always respect and I knew it too that you do not look the same. This is life, like it or not。 One thing more, I did not even have my hair dyed. What could be better than natural - the gift of nature - cycle of life.
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"Well, I am fat , and so"...you are lovely all the time. :)
Thanks for the kind words. While writing the post, I found myself getting more interested in women's stories. One day I may write a novel about all these little things. Honestly, I am not so concerned if I am lovely. I hope that I can be a woman who is comfortable with one's choices. Until now, I am and hopefully continue to be.
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